She taught her boys to be gentlemen, but apparently not how to fight. Now civility is a wonderful conservative virtue, but it is for the civil only. It doesn't work with thugs. If we are not willing to be uncivil in our response to our enemies, we will not be able to preserve a space for civility.
In this age of post-consensus politics such gentlemen as Jeb! are viewed by true conservatives as appeasing jokers, 'cuckservatives' in the harsh but telling lingo of certain alt-rightists.
To say it again: I am not alt-right; my disagreements with those boys go deep. But I am also not a knuckle-headed Never-Trumper who thinks the Alt-Right can be dismissed unread as if there is nothing genuine and important that motivates them.