{"id":9776,"date":"2012-04-12T16:44:31","date_gmt":"2012-04-12T16:44:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/2012\/04\/12\/are-you-an-introvert-2\/"},"modified":"2012-04-12T16:44:31","modified_gmt":"2012-04-12T16:44:31","slug":"are-you-an-introvert-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/2012\/04\/12\/are-you-an-introvert-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You an Introvert?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">The <strong>bolded material<\/strong> below is taken verbatim from Susan Cain, <em>Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can&#39;t Stop Talking<\/em> (Crown 2012), p. 13.&#0160; I then give my responses.&#0160; The more affirmative responses, the more of an introvert you are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>1. I prefer one-on-one conversations to group activities.<\/strong> Absolutely!&#0160; Especially in philosophical discussions.&#0160; As Roderick Chisholm once said, &quot;In philosophy, <a href=\"http:\/\/maverickphilosopher.typepad.com\/maverick_philosopher\/2011\/10\/threes-a-crowd.html\" target=\"_self\">three&#39;s a crowd<\/a>.&quot;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>2. I often prefer to express myself in writing.<\/strong>&#0160; Yes.&#0160; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>3. I enjoy solitude.<\/strong>&#0160; Is the Pope Catholic?&#0160; <em>Beata solitudo, sola beatitudo<\/em>.&#0160; Happy solitude, the sole beatitude.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>4. I seem to care less than my peers about wealth, fame, and status.<\/strong>&#0160; Seem?&#0160; Do!&#0160; Money is a mere means.&#0160; To pursue it as an end in itself is perverse.&#0160; And once you have enough, you stop acquiring more and turn to&#0160;higher pursuits.&#0160;&#0160; Obscurity is delicious.&#0160; To be able to walk down the street and pass as an ordinary schmuck is wonderful.&#0160; The value of fame and celebrity is directly proportional to the value of the fools and know-nothings who confer it.&#0160; And doesn&#39;t Aristotle say that to&#0160; be famous you need other people, which fact renders you dependent on them? Similarly with social status.&#0160; Who confers it? And what is their judgment worth?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>5. I dislike small talk, but I enjoy talking in depth about topics that matter to me.<\/strong>&#0160; More than once in these pages have I ranted about the endless yap, yap, yap, about noth, noth, nothing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>6. People tell me I&#39;m a good listener.<\/strong>&#0160; Yes.&#0160; My mind drifts back to a girl I knew when I was fifteen.&#0160; She called me her &#39;analyst&#39; when she wasn&#39;t calling me &#39;Dr. Freud.&#39;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>7. I&#39;m not a big risk-taker.<\/strong>&#0160; That&#39;s right.&#0160; I recently took a three-day motorcycle course, passed it, and got my license.&#0160; I&#0160; had been eyeing&#0160; the Harley-Davidson 883 Iron.&#0160; But then I asked myself how riding a motorcycle would further my life tasks and whether it makes sense, having come this far, to risk my life and physical integrity in pursuit of cheap thrills.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>8. I enjoy work that allows me to &quot;dive in&quot; with few interruptions.<\/strong>&#0160; Right.&#0160; No instant messaging.&#0160; Only recently acquired a cell phone.&#0160; I keep it turned off.&#0160; Call me the uncalled caller.&#0160; My wife is presently in a faraway land on a Fulbright.&#0160; That allows me to unplug the land-line.&#0160; I love e-mail; fast but unintrusive.&#0160; I&#39;ll answer when I feel like it and get around to it.&#0160; I don&#39;t allow mself to be rushed or interrupted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>9. I like to celebrate birthdays on a small scale, with only one or two close friends or family members<\/strong>.&#0160; I don&#39;t see the point of celebrating birthdays at all. What&#39;s to celebrate?&#0160; First, birth is not unequivocally good.&#0160; Second, it is not something you brought about.&#0160; It befell you.&#0160; Better to celebrate some good thing that you made happen.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>10. People describe me as &quot;soft-spoken&quot; or &quot;mellow.&quot;<\/strong>&#0160; I&#39;m too intense to be called &#39;mellow,&#39; but <em>sotto voce <\/em>applies.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>11. I prefer not to show or discuss my work with others until it is finished.<\/strong>&#0160; Pretty much, with the exception of these blog scribblings.&#0160;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>12. I dislike conflict.<\/strong>&#0160; Can&#39;t stand it.&#0160; Hate onesidedness.&#0160; I look at a problem from all angles and try to mediate oppositions&#0160; when possible.&#0160; I thoroughly hate, reject, and abjure the <a href=\"http:\/\/maverickphilosopher.typepad.com\/maverick_philosopher\/2011\/06\/the-enmity-potential-of-thought-and-philosophy-as-blood-sport.html\" target=\"_self\">blood sport <\/a>approach to philosophy.&#0160; Polemic has no place in philosophy.&#0160; This is not to say that it does not have a place elsewhere, in politics for example.&#0160; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>13. I do my best work on my own.<\/strong>&#0160; Yes.&#0160; A former colleague, a superficial extrovert,&#0160;once described me as &#39;lone wolf.&#39;<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>14. I tend to think before I speak.<\/strong>&#0160; Yes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>15. I feel drained after being out and about, even if I&#39;ve enjoyed myself.<\/strong>&#0160; Yes.&#0160; This is a common complaint of introverts.&#0160; They can take only so much social interaction.&#0160; It depletes their energy and they need to go off by themselves to &#39;recharge their batteries.&#39;&#0160; In my case, it is not just an energy depletion but a draining away of&#0160;my &#0160;&#39;spiritual substance.&#39;&#0160; It is as if one&#39;s interiority has been compromised and one has entered into inauthenticity, Heidegger&#39;s <em>Uneigentlichkeit<\/em>.&#0160; The best expression of this sense of spiritual depletion is probably Kierkegaard&#39;s remark in one of his early journal entries about a party he attended:<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">I have just returned from a party of which I was the life and soul; witty banter flowed from my lips, everyone laughed and admired me &#8212; but I came away, indeed that dash should be as along as the radii of the earth&#39;s orbit &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;- wanting to shoot myself. (1836)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>16. I often let calls go through to e-mail.<\/strong>&#0160; Yes. See comment to #8 above.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>17. If I had to choose, I&#39;d prefer a weekend with absolutely nothing to do to one with too many things scheduled.<\/strong>&#0160; I love huge blocks of time, days at a stretch, with no commitments whatsoever. <em>Dolce far niente.&#0160;<\/em> Sweet to do nothing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>18. I don&#39;t enjoy multitasking.<\/strong>&#0160; Right. One thing at a time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>19. I can concentrate easily.<\/strong>&#0160; Obviously, and for long stretches of time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><strong>20. In classroom sitations, I prefer lecture to seminars.<\/strong>&#0160; Especially if I&#39;m doing the lecturing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.typelogic.com\/intp.html\" target=\"_self\">Here<\/a> is a description of the Myers-Briggs INTP.&#0160; And <a href=\"http:\/\/intp.org\/intprofile.html\" target=\"_self\">here<\/a> is another.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The bolded material below is taken verbatim from Susan Cain, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can&#39;t Stop Talking (Crown 2012), p. 13.&#0160; I then give my responses.&#0160; The more affirmative responses, the more of an introvert you are. 1. I prefer one-on-one conversations to group activities. Absolutely!&#0160; Especially in philosophical discussions.&#0160; &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/2012\/04\/12\/are-you-an-introvert-2\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Are You an Introvert?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[92,221],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-autobiographical","category-psychology-and-personality-typology"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9776\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}