{"id":8586,"date":"2013-08-01T13:23:34","date_gmt":"2013-08-01T13:23:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/2013\/08\/01\/on-redneck\/"},"modified":"2013-08-01T13:23:34","modified_gmt":"2013-08-01T13:23:34","slug":"on-redneck","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/maverickphilosopher.blog\/index.php\/2013\/08\/01\/on-redneck\/","title":{"rendered":"On Taking Abuse"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">Everyone gets abused verbally in this world and one had better learn how to take it.&#0160; There are bigots&#0160;everywhere &#8212; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nationalreview.com\/corner\/349431\/why-are-liberals-so-rude-right\" target=\"_self\">liberals are among the&#0160;most vile<\/a>, their tendency&#0160; to project psychologically rendering&#0160;their bigotry &#0160;invisible to them &#8212; and sooner or later you will encounter your fair share of abusers and bigots.&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;A fellow graduate student called your humble correspondent a &#39;guinea&#39;&#0160; in the 1970s. This was in Boston.&#0160; But I didn&#39;t break his nose and do the ground and pound on him. Was it cowardice or good sense?&#0160; Call it self-control.&#0160; If Trayvon Martin had control of his emotions on that fateful night, he would probably be alive today.&#0160; The downside, of course, is that then &#0160;we wouldn&#39;t be having this delightful &#39;conversation&#39; about race.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">My impression is that there is&#0160;&#0160;more anti-Italian prejudice &#8212; not that it is any big deal &#8212; in the East than in the West where I come from. (And without a doubt, Jim Morrison had it right when he opined that the West is the best, in at least two senses.)&#0160; &#0160;I didn&#39;t encounter any anti-Italian prejudice until I headed East. I&#0160; had a Lithuanian girl friend in Boston whose mother used to warn&#0160; her: &quot;Never bring an Italian home.&quot; I never did get to meet Darci&#39;s mom.&#0160; Imagine a Lithuanian feeling superior to an Italian!<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">But I want to talk about blacks, to add just a bit more to this wonderful &#39;conversation&#39; about race we are having.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">Blacks need to learn from Jews, Italians, the Irish, and others who have faced abuse and discrimination. &#0160;Don&#39;t whine, don&#39;t complain, don&#39;t seek a government program. Don&#39;t try to cash in on your &#39;victim&#39; status, when the truth&#0160;&#0160; is that you are a &#39;victim&#39; of liberal victimology.&#0160; Don&#39;t waste your energy blaming others for your own failures.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">Don&#39;t wallow in your real or imagined grievances, especially vicarious grievances.&#0160; That&#39;s the mark of a loser.&#0160; Winners live and act in the present where alone they can influence the future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">If you want me to judge you as an individual, by the content of your character and not by the color of your skin, then behave like an individual: don&#39;t try to secure advantages from membership in a group.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">Abandon tribal self-identification.&#0160; Did you vote for Obama because he is black?&#0160; Then you have no business in a voting booth.&#0160; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">Bear in mind that the world runs on appearances, and that if you appear to be a thug &#8212; from your saggy pants, your &#39;hoodie,&#39; your sullen and disrespectful attitude &#8212; then people will suspect you of being a thug.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">Take a leaf out of Condi Rice&#39;s book. She&#39;s black, she&#39;s female, and she became Secretary of State. And her predecessor in the job was a black&#0160; man, Colin Powell. It sure is a racist society we have here in the&#0160; USA. And that Justice Thomas on the Supreme Court &#8212; isn&#39;t he a black dude?&#0160; And not a mulatto like Obama, but one seriously black man.&#0160;&#0160; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">Lose the basketball.&#0160; Get the needle out of your arm, and that soul-killing rap noise out of your ears. Listen to the late Beethoven piano sonatas. May I recommend Opus #s 109, 110, and 111? Mozart is also supposed to be good for&#0160; improving your mental capacity. We honkies want you to be successful.&#0160; If you are successful, we won&#39;t have to support you.&#0160; And if you are successful you will be happy.&#0160; Happy people don&#39;t cause trouble.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">And we don&#39;t&#0160;give a flying enchilada&#0160;what color you are. It&#39;s not about color anyway.&#0160; It&#39;s about behavior. Work hard, practice the ancient virtues, and be successful. If you can&#39;t make it here, you can&#39;t make it anywhere. Don&#39;t let Brother Jesse or Brother Al tell you otherwise.&#0160; Those so-called &#39;reverends&#39; are nothing but race-hustlers who make money from the grievance industry.&#0160; <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">Liberals are not your friends either.&#0160; They want you to stay on the plantation.&#0160; They think you are too stupid to take care of yourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">If you learn to control your emotions, defer gratification, study hard and practice the old-time virtues, will you be &#39;acting white&#39;?&#0160; Yes, in a sense.&#0160; High culture is universal and available to all who want to assimilate it.&#0160; What makes our culture superior to yours is not that it is white but that it is superior.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,palatino;\">Don&#39;t get mad, be like Rudy Giuliani. Can you imagine him making a big deal about being called a greaseball, dago, goombah, wop, guinea . . .&#0160; ? 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