The Need for Outside Help

A human life is too short for the acquisition by oneself of the wisdom needed to live it well — or to end it well.  And the same goes for the appropriation of the hard-won wisdom of one's predecessors: the brevity of life militates against the needed appropriation as much as against the needed acquisition.  So wisdom must come from outside the human-all-too-human if it is to come at all.

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Addendum .  Dave Bagwill submits the following pertinent quotation from George MacDonald's Diary of an Old Soul for July 15th:

Who sets himself not sternly to be good,
Is but a fool, who judgment of true things
Has none, however oft the claim renewed.
And he who thinks, in his great plenitude,
To right himself, and set his spirit free,
Without the might of higher communings,
Is foolish also--save he willed himself to be.

 

Mockery

I just heard Dennis Prager say that he never mocks his ideological opponents.  If I had his ear, I would put to him the question, "Do think there are no conceivable circumstances in which mockery of an ideological opponent is morally justified?"

If he answered in the affirmative, then I would press him on how this comports with his conviction that there are circumstances in which the use of physical violence against human beings is morally justified.

I would urge that if the latter is morally justified, and it is, then the former, a sort of verbal violence, is morally justified. In battling evil people and their pernicious views, all means at our disposal should be employed, it being understood that the appeal to reason and fact is the tactic of first resort.

The Lonesome Death of an Old Australian Woman

Here (HT: Karl White)

A ninety year old woman died in her home in Auburn. She had decomposed through the floor before she was found six months later. The diaries found in her belongings shed light on this lonely and brilliant mind. Watch the documentary above, and read further excerpts from her diaries below.

The Wise Live by Probabilities, not by Possibilities

The worldly wise live by the probable and not by the possible.  It is possible that you will reform the person you want to marry.  But it is not probable. 

Don't imagine that you can change a person in any significant way.  What you see now in your partner is what you will get from here on out.  People don't change.  They are what they are.  The few exceptions prove the rule.  The wise live by rules, not exceptions, by probabilities, not possibilities.  "Probability is the very guide to life." (Bishop Butler quoting Cicero, De Natura, 5, 12) It is foolish to gamble with your happiness.  We gamble with what is inconsequential, what we can afford to lose.  So if there is anything about your potential spouse that is unacceptable, don't foolishly suppose that  you will change her.  You won't. You must take her as she is, warts and all, as she must take you.

The principle applies not only to marriage but across the board.

The Role of Envy in Human Affairs

The older I get, the more two things impress me. One is the suggestibility of human beings, their tendency to imbibe and repeat ideas and attitudes from their social environment with nary an attempt at critical examination. The other is the major role envy plays in human affairs.  Today my topic is envy.

Envy and Jealousy

People commonly confuse envy with jealousy. To feel envy is to feel diminished in one’s sense of self-worth by another’s success or well-being or attributes.  Thus if A feels bad because B won an award, then A envies B his winning of the award. It is a misuse of language to say that A is jealous of B in a situation like this. Jealousy requires three people, whereas envy requires only two. Suppose A and B are married, and C shows an amatory interest in B. A may well come to feel jealous of C. To use ‘envy’ and ‘jealousy’ interchangeably is to ride roughshod over a simple distinction, and that is something that clear-headed people will want to avoid.

You say that language is always changing? No doubt, but not all change is progress. Progress is change for the good. The elision of distinctions is not good.  Distinctions are the lifeblood of thought.  Confusing envy with jealousy, inference with implication, lying with making false statements, a dilemma with any old problem, chauvinism with male chauvinism, and so on is not progress, but regress.  

Envy and Schadenfreude

If to feel envy is to feel bad when another does well, what should we call the emotion of feeling good when another suffers misfortune? There is no word in English for this as far as I know, but in German it is called Schadenfreude. This word is used in English from time to time, and is one every educated person should know. It means joy (Freude) at another's injuries (Schaden). Arthur Schopenhauer, somewhere in Aphorismen zur Lebensweisheit, remarks that while envy (Neid) is human, Schadenfreude is diabolical. Exactly right. There is something fiendish in feeling positive glee at another’s misery. This is not to imply that envy is not a hateful emotion.  It is and ought to be avoided as far as possible. Invidia, after all, is one of the seven deadly sins. From the Latin invidia comes ‘invidious comparison’ which just means an envious comparison.  Envy is  bad but Schadenfreude is worse.

Envy 1Comparison

There can be comparison without envy, but every case of envy involves comparison. So one way to avoid envy is to avoid comparing yourself with others. Just be yourself and do your best, and don’t worry too much about what others are doing. Try to live your own incomparable life from out of your own inner resources. Strive for individuation, not for clone status.

There is the folk wisdom saying that comparisons are odious, to which I add that comparisons are often invidious.

"But isn't it good to compare yourself with your superiors in order to emulate them?"  It is, if one can avoid succumbing to envy.  The best course is not to compare oneself with any individual but with the high standards of which individuals are mere examples whether the standards be intellectual, moral, or physical.  Many exemplify the cardinal virtues (prudence, justice, courage, and temperance)  in greater measure than I do, but I ought not compare myself to these individuals but to the standards they exemplify.  The admirable individuals are merely proof that the ideals are realizable, and the extent to which they are realizable.  As I have argued more than once in these pages, an ideal that is not humanly realizable cannot count as a genine ideal for humans. This is a generalization of the ought implies can principle.

Comparison and Envy in the Islamic World

If the Islamic world avoided comparison and envy,  they wouldn’t waste so much time and energy hating the USA, the 'great Satan' and Israel the 'little Satan.' Surely part of the explanation of the 9/11/01 terrorist attacks is sheer envy. It is also part of the explanation of the Arab hatred of Israel. Arabs, and Muslims generally, need to learn that envy is totally unproductive, besides being evil. One cannot improve one’s lot in life by tearing other people down.  You cannot add one cubit to your stature by cursing me for being taller.

My publishing more articles than you does not reduce the number of your publications, or prevent you from publishing. My increase in net worth is not at your expense. If I become wealthier than you, that is a real change in me, but only a relational change in you, one consistent with your not losing a cent. (The economy is not a zero sum game.) One of my trees is now taller than my house. The tree grew; the house did not shrink. The house became shorter than the tree, but without suffering any real change in respect of height.

The superiority of the superiors over the inferiors redounds to the latter's benefit. The superiority of the tree to the house in respect of height shades the house.  If the house could kill the tree it would eliminate the shade that cools it.  If the Arab states could destroy Israel it would make the entire region more miserable and backward than it already is.  If leftists could could destroy free markets, then we would all be poor.

One of the things that has made the USA a successful nation is that Americans are a positive, forward-looking people not as a rule given to envy. We generally do not compare ourselves with others, but do our own thing, thereby setting the standard.  We are builders, not destroyers. 

A perfect illustration of mindless destructiveness is the behavior of the terrorist entity, Hamas.  They acquire cement not to build above ground for life but to tunnel underground so as to undermine Israel and deliver death.  It is more than evil, it is irrational.  It is morally and intellectually insane.  What accounts for this insanity?  A deep nihilism.  Whence the nihilism? That question is above my paygrade, but Goethe in Faust may provide a clue in the passage where he characterizes Mephistopheles as the spirit that always negates, der Geist der stets verneint.

Envy as Partial Explanation of Jew Hatred

I don't know what the whole explanation is, but surely a good part of it is envy.  Muslims in particular, but other groups as well, cannot stand Jewish superiority.  Instead of being rational and appreciating that this superiority redounds to their benefit, they succumb to the basest and most vile forms of envy.  They feel so diminished in their sense of self-worth by Jewish superiority that they would do anything to destroy the Jews even though that would  accomplish precisely nothing by way of raising their status. On the contrary, it would diminish it.  Suppose Hamas destroyed Israel.  Then the whole area would be as backward and impoverished as the Gaza Strip. 

It is Not Good to be an Object of Envy

Some people think that it is good to be an object of envy.  They overlook the fact that envy is a kind of hate directed at what is good and productive and positive in a person.  Envy is not a form of admiration but a perversion of admiration.  Only a fool would want to be envied, for only fools want to be hated.  There is no way to avoid being hated in this life, but to seek the hatred of others is folly.

How to Avoid being Envied

One way is to avoid ostentation.  The ordinary schmuck doesn't excite envy, so try to pass yourself off as one.  Be careful of self-revelation. Stay away from envious people.   In a world of lies and deceit, one must know and practice the arts of dissembling.  Just as civility is for the civil, honesty is for the honest.  Among the evil and mendacious, one must be careful and some dissembling is justified.

The Worldly Too Know that Life is Short

And so they compose 'bucket lists' of things to do before they 'kick the bucket.'  It's as if, on the sinking Titanic, one were to try to make the most of the ship and its features and amenities instead of considering how one might survive the coming calamity.

"There are a lot of things I want to do before we sink.  I've never been to the captain's quarters or inspected the engine room or admired the gold fixtures in the first-class cabins or had a drink in the VIP lounge."

The worldly too know that life is short but they draw the wrong conclusion from the fact.

You are Sliding down a Mountain . . .

You are sliding down a mountain towards certain death.  Your only hope is to grab the rope that is thrown to you.  Will you refuse to do so because the rope might break?  Will you first inquire into the reliability of the rope or the credibility of the assurances of the one who would be your savior?

Judging People

People can and ought to be judged by the company they keep, the company they keep away from, and those who attack them.

Addendum (6/23):

S. N. counters thusly: 

For John the Baptist came neither eating bread nor drinking wine, and you say, ‘He has a demon.’ The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and you say, ‘Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.' (Luke 7.33-4)

God incarnate can safely consort with gluttons and drunkards and the lying agents of the Infernal Revenue Service, but mortal man cannot.  So one who does so consort  ought to be judged by the company he keeps.  The judgment might be along the following lines, "You are morally weak, and you know you are; and yet you enter the near occasion of sin?" 

This leads to a question about "Judge not lest ye be judged."  How is this NT verse at Matthew 7, 1-5 to be interpreted?  Is it to be read as implying the categorical imperative, "Thou shalt not judge others morally"?  Or is it to be interpreted as a merely hypothetical imperative, "You may judge others morally, but only if you are prepared to be judged morally in turn and either condemned or exonerated as the case may be"?

The first reading is not plausible.  For one thing, one cannot detach the antecedent or the consequent of a conditional in the way one can detach the conjunct of a conjunction.  Compare 'If you don't want to be judged by others, don't judge them' with 'You don't want to be judged by others and you don't want others to judge you.'  The categorical imperative 'Don't judge them' does not follow from the first.  The declarative ' You don't want others to judge you' does follow from the second.

But now a third reading suggests itself to me, one that in a sense combines the categorical and the hypothetical, to wit, "You may judge others morally, but only if you are prepared to be judged morally and condemned by God, since no man is justified before God."  This is tantamount to a categorical prohibition on judging.

I suspect the third reading is the correct one in the context of Christian teaching as a whole.  But I'm no theologian.

Homo Homini Lupus: The Red Army Rape of German Women, Spring 1945

The best antidote to the leftist-progressivist fantasy that man is basically good is the study of history, including the history of leftist-progressivist atrocities.  Here is an excerpt from Antony Beevor's book on the fall of Berlin.  "They raped every German female from eight to 80."